Things look a little different these days. I’ve said it before but I started this blog at a time in my life where I was sad and lonely and vulnerable. I’m still sad sometimes. And sometimes I feel alone in my struggle. But the girl who started that blog has changed. And thus, it’s also…
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A philosophy of sorts
Sometimes you wake up and you look at yourself and you’re like, “Damn. I’m fly.” And it’s not just like you have a cute outfit on or your makeup is on point, it’s that you feel good about your insides and your actions and you may not know exactly what is going on at all…
Spence
My therapist is encouraging me to be as genuine as possible in everything I do. So I’m trying to do that more. Just be a little more upfront. Y’all are probably thinking “Bitch, you’re always upfront. What are you talking about?” To which I would say, “Yes. On here.” Trying to do that a little…
Thunderstorms and beaches
I have these moments, many if you’ve been reading this blog for awhile, where I am/feel like a bad bitch. You know? I feel like I can walk the streets by myself and be so comfortable and badass. Then… Then there are other times. When it’s raining and there is a storm watch for like…
Love letter to men
I’m in the mood to rant and I’ve got some time before church so imma go in for a second. Men, listen, you are not the keeper of my thoughts. You don’t know what my past is, you don’t know my life. If you make assumptions you not only prove yourself to be an ass,…
If I got locked away…
Although I get upset with many of my relationships, they always teach me something which is a pretty great trade off. Those who care about your relationship (platonic, romantic, familial, etc, etc) will be there for you and with you through thick and thin. They will somehow make sure that your relationship is strong and…
…and a happy new year
Happy almost new year! Have to say, no matter what this evening turned out to be (not exactly the plans I originally had but interesting and fun nonetheless), it is light years better than last year. Let’s take a stroll down memory lane… The night was December 31st 2014. It was a Wednesday. My sweet…
I saw the signs, opened my eyes and now I’m here
Well hello there. Welcome to my wall. I am not a flower but I am a journalist, an introvert, a born-again blogger, and a law lover (quite irrelevant at the moment but necessary for future reference). A few weeks ago I went to a journalism conference that featured a talk by Laurie Penny and Elaine Díaz Rodríguez…
Serenity Searching 